NEPTUNE IN THE 7TH HOUSE Of Solar Return Astrology Chart
Relationships tend to lack definition and certainty during the year that Neptune is in the 7th house. There is a vagueness about involvements which manifests in a variety of ways.
This is generally not the time to expect firm commitments. Relationships, whether good or bad, tend to seek their own level of involvement and are not subject to categorization. It is unlikely that you will get married during the year, though you might discuss the possibility.
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The tendency, though, is toward all talk and no action. Strong placements in the 5th house, aspecting Neptune in the 7th, tend to indicate that an involvement is more closely akin to an affair than an established partnership. Per-haps you are not quite sure where the relationship is headed. This can be true even though you have been together for a number of years. Your partner may be contemplating career or personal changes which will affect you either directly or indirectly. You might be asked to make a leap of faith, trusting your partner's instincts and providing the support necessary for the transition he or she wishes to make. Generally, you must do this without any guarantees of success or return. Occasionally, you will be asked to sacrifice your own needs for those of your partner.
Relationships can be downright confusing and anxiety-producing with little sense of direction or destination.
It is best just to let situations evolve and go with the flow, not making concrete plans for the future. Relationships may grow, or they may die, but they cannot be planned out or structured this year. In the most negative manifestations, you waste your time trying to rescue someone when the individual really does not want to be saved or even understood. You try to force your perception of the future onto someone else right to make choices. If you continue to push against all reason, you will lose your sense of self, and eventually, become victimized by your own misguided efforts.
Misunderstandings will be a real danger.
You must be more mindful of the need for clarity. Per-haps your partner says one thing and does another. Actions and words conflict; double messages are possible. Confusion ensues. Learn to collect information from more than one source. Do not rely solely on verbal information. You must trust your own judgment, or you will be too easily swayed by others. It is possible that you will be lied to or deceived this year by an intimate partner, probably not a casual acquaintance. Idealization plays a major role in the deception process; in effect, you fool yourself as much as allowing yourself to be fooled by others. Use several means to assess reality and remain grounded. Always be true to yourself. There can be a fine line between deception and misunderstanding. Only time and developing circumstances will tell which is which. It is possible to contribute to your own difficulties without seeing yourself as a primary cause. Give careful consideration to your partner's side of the story.
On a more positive note, Neptune can show increased sensitivity within a relationship.
This can be a time when you develop a spiritual union marked by greater caring and compassion. Under-standing can be established without words. Spirituality grows if you both follow your intuition and draw on Universal connections. This is especially true if you are married to the person you care most about or have been able to establish an enduring relationship over a period of time. Seek a feeling of connectedness with another.